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    1. Mister
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      This could also be named "Props and Skills", or "We(e) within Universe" or... feel free to think up your own name for the game.

       

      It is a good thing to have good friends - they can bring stuff to your attention you wouldn't ever think about.

       

      One such friend told me that she felt as if some "readers" have somehow come upon my "Get The Start Right"-post and went straight into business with nothing but the method outlined there. "Nah, can't be" is what I thought, but evidence presented made it hard to maintain that stance.

       

      What in blazes is so hard to understand about the words "Start" and "Beginning"!?

      Sure, that method can carry you a long way, given the following prerequisites: You only use the cards for yourself and you only read periodically, about once in three months maximum, and even then, by your tenth year of doing so at the very latest, by way of pondering and re-examination you will have grown beyond it, no doubt.

       

      With that cleared up, "Onwards!", as some fella once put it.

       

      The main point is this: Tarot doesn't work per se.

      It is and will be the reader who makes it work.

       

      Assuming the Tarot or any form of cards/divinatory tool work by default is like getting a pup and assuming it will grow into a well-behaved dog no matter what you do.

      Which is precisely why it is a challenging profession, very much so.

       

      Here are some of the things I have noted along the way:

       

      Beginners luck is in effect: For the first few dozens of reads, things will likely be easy, especially if the one reading doesn't ponder too much about whatever method and meaning they have been presented and go by.

      That is history as soon as you start to ponder what the cards are truly about for you, for then your energetic field starts to deviate and develop - and that process is highly favoured by the universe we live in.

      Once started, there is no going back, you will have to proceed - or leave.

      "Just don't ponder" is not an option either, for after a while your reads will be off - it is how the universe extends its invitation to grow.

      In my dictionary, a reader worth their salt is one who proceeded.

       

      Next thing: You will encounter reads going beyond your imagination. This can happen at any stage, for we are human.

      Our imagination is limited and to top it off, we live inside something unimaginable.

      Unimaginably beautiful, yet also the opposite thereof.

      "To imagine" is a skill in itself, it has to be trained. "Flexed" is the fitting word here.

      It happened to me recently - got it figured out and intended to write a two-part blog-entry about it, but the first part got deleted and without it, the second doesn't quiet line up nicely.

      On that note, I can certainly see why it got deleted and do respect the decision of the moderators - it is their job to keep things moderate, after all.

      And our imagination mostly fails us when things go into the very extremes of "extreme".

      You may stumble about or over it in relationship readings (I do not recommend reading for couples with both present at the table) and readings concerning big business, especially when those intersect with religion and politics. It is plain inhumane stuff and flexing ones imagination becomes a cruel task indeed.

      Nonetheless, depending on how far you want to take your art, it may have to be done.

      Messing up the shuffle-and-draw is so basic you should be well beyond it once you call yourself a reader.

       

      Luckily, this universe is as forgiving as it is cruel, so the above mentioned effect (bungling a read for you simply could not imagine) can also appear during reads where you look far into the future - and there is stuff happening in the cards, lots of stuff. Yet, the year was/is a boring one.

      In such cases, it can be conducive to look into what has happened/is happening not in your or your clients life but in the life of humanity as a whole, you may well have tuned into something bigger than intended when doing said read.

      The second lucky aspect is that in most of these cases, the cards are still spot-on, thereby leaving a clue to where we failed in our interpretation.

       

      Three is the charm, so here's anotherone. Funnily enough it appears once you have attained a certain level of proficiency:

      Your cards switch their way of talking. Spontaneously.

       

      The easiest observable instance is when you ask a Yes/No and the cards present you with a story and vice versa, you ask for a story and the cards heavily pinpoint the positives and the negatives, turning it into a clear Yes/No read.

      For example, the question was "What will happen if I attend this'n'that summit?" and the answer is: "No, don't go, stay away from there!"

      Simple one, No? Here's seconds: "Should I pick that job?" and the answer is "No, you are fine the way it is, stick with it and success will come" presented in the following way: XIII, L'Empereur, Le Soleil.

      The opposition between the first two cards will be so glaringly obvious it'll almost hurt the eyes.

      The same sequence may appear, and the opposition isn't tangible at all. Then, it is safe to go by the standarts applying to Yes/No-questions, a plain "Yes" in this case.

       

      The reason being, as we aquaint ourselves with the energies around us, so do they aquaint themselves with us.

      The "like learning a language"-metaphor to cartomancy holds true.

      If you learn with a native speaker, they will pick up on your progress and stop to talk with you like you were a foreigner/infant and instead treat you like a native.

       

      There's more (lots), but here a conclusion fits nicely: A seasoned reader is not someone who never fails or never failed at all, that's just stupidity at work.

      It is one who failed, understood why and grew beyond it, times and time again.

      So much so that you sense when you are off during the read and are able to correct yourself on the spot.

       

      Needless to say, that doesn't come cheap.

       

      Starting to be a reader is one of the easiest things in the world -

      sticking with the art and developing it into even a slight degree of mastery is one of the hardest things you could attempt.

       

      For whatever stage you're currently at, myself included, here is the response of the universe:

       

      "You will learn so much more!"

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      Feedback, Comments and Questions are welcome.

       

      The Past Month, card No. 1 provides an opportunity to look back over the entire previous month with an eye to what theme(s) played out and what lessons were learned.  Cards 2 through 5 look at the energy for each of the four upcoming lunar weeks.  It's snapshot look at what to expect and what to look out for.  Developing an awareness of the phases of the moon is a great spiritual practice.  This is the Ark Tarot by Bernadette King.

       

      Card No. 1:  Mother of Pentacles                                       'Tradition'               Dream teacher prep.

      Card No. 2:  Three of Cups.                Chaverah               'Friendship'            Write Dianna.

      Card No. 3:  XI                                      Gevirah                   'Justice'                  Craft K'li Hanecha for trip to America.

      Card No. 4:  Ten of Cups                     Mishpacha             'Ideal Family'          Plan husband's birthday surprise.

      Card No. 5:  Five of Wands                 Netzach                  'Win-Win'               Home improvement projects.

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      Aries - Strength • Reversed

       

      The astrological rulership of the Strength card corresponds to the sign of Leo.  This constellation speaks to the glow of one’s spirit, radiating from mid point between the heart and solar plexus.  This consciousness bestows us with everlasting guidance, lighting our path with each and every beat.

       

      “The heart of a child is the master of the universe.”

       

      It takes strength to lead with love.  

      It takes courage to lead with love.

      It takes defiance to lead with love.

       

      In a world, where ego is celebrated and encouraged, the depth of connection gets buried beneath scrolling, posts, and likes.  This card is an invitation to step away from the socialized norms and truly connect.  Drop into your inner child’s wants and desires and let them lead you on your greatest adventure.

       

      Taurus -  7 of Wands • Reversed

       

      This is an opportunity to flip righteousness on its head and to untangle something you are holding onto with a clenched fist.  Let your mind hone in on a pain point, a resentment, or something that sends you into a spiral of fire.  

       

      Byron Katie outlines a process called “The Work,” in her book, Loving What Is.  Find your way to some paper and a pen and LET IT RIP.  Don’t try to be conscious or polite.  This is your moment to allow your uncensored feelings to fly.  Spill the privacy of your mind onto the page and unleash the beast.

       

      1. In this situation, who angers, confuses, saddens, or disappoints you, and why? (Remember : be harsh, childish, and petty.)

      I don’t like (I am angry at, or saddened, frightened, confused, etc., by)

      (Name) because

       

      1. In this situation, how do you want him/her to change?  What do you want him/her to do?

      I want (Name) to …

       

      1. In this situation, what advice would you offer him/her?  He/She should/shouldn’t … “

      (Name) should (shouldn’t) …

       

      1. In order for you to be happy in this situation, what do you need him/her to think, say, feel, or do? (Pretend it’s your birthday and you can have anything you want.  Go for it!

      I need (Name) to

       

      1. What do you think of him/her in this situation? Make a list.

      (Don’t be rational or kind.)

      1. What is it about this situation that you never want to experience again?

      I don’t ever want …

       

      • Now, go back to Question 1 and ask yourself, “Is it true.”  Take your time and let a Yes or No reveal itself.  If it’s no, skip to question 3.

      • Can you absolutely know that it is true?

      • How do you react , what happens, when you believe that thought?

      • Who or What would you be without the thought?

      • Turnaround : Where you have written someone else’s name, put yourself.

      For example : Paul doesn’t listen to me transforms into, “I don’t listen to myself.”  Find several examples of how this statement is true.  This is not about blaming yourself or feeling guilty.  It’s about discovering alternatives that bring you peace.

       

      • Excerpt from Loving What Is

       

      Gemini - King of Swords

      Power is such a fascinating concept.  Distortion has been thrown on it and it has been known to wear a mask.  Truth and its double edged sword.  The cold blade of Verity is a liberating force that seeks us out when we are open, receptive, and awake.  Your voice is your superpower.  Don't let anyone silence you, especially yourself!

       

      Contemplation:

      Stream of Consciousness : What are the first 3 words that spring to mind for POWER?

      In what ways do you give away your POWER?

      What does POWER feel like in your body?  

       

      Cancer - 8 of Swords • Reversed

      Whether we are conscious of it, or not, many of us react to life as victims. When we refuse to take responsibility for ourselves, we are choosing to react as a victim. Feelings of anger, fear, guilt or inadequacy are created and we are left feeling betrayed, or taken advantage of.

      Stephen Karpman, a psychiatrist and an educator of Transactional Analysis calls it the “Drama Triangle.”

      Under which, we unconsciously reproduce painful life themes that create shame and reinforce old, harmful beliefs that keep us bound in self limitation.

      As a model of social interaction, The Drama Triangle describes how we frequently adopt one of three unhealthy roles when attempting to resolve conflict.

      • The Victim

      Mindset : “Poor me.” 

      Feelings : hopeless, helpless, trapped, ashamed, embarrassed

      Victims doubt their innate capabilities and look to others for guidance.  They give away their power by giving them authority and control over our lives. They often seek out Rescuers.

      • The Rescuer

      This archetype is available to come to other people’s aid, especially when that person falls into the Victim role. Rescuers see Victims as vulnerable and do their best to intervene and save them from Persecutors.

      Rescuers feel compelled to help Victims.  They often sacrifice their own time, energy, and needs in the process.

      • The Persecutor

      This archetype is highly critical of others' actions. They quickly assume the person had negative intentions and don’t seek understanding. They may demean others, making them feel inadequate and small, which shrinks them down into a Victim mindset.

      The road to healthy relationships lies in outgrowing The Drama Triangle.

      Liberation Techniques :

      1. Awareness : Shine the light of Awareness on your behaviors.  Witness unhealthy reactions in real time, pause, and pivot your responses.

      2. Evolution of the Archetypes:

      • Victim has the opportunity to develop oneself into the Architect of their experience.

      • Rescuer transforms into a curious Coach.  They ask self reflective questions of themselves to actualize their goals and aspirations.

      • Persecutor evolves into Challenging others to step up and grow into the best version of themselves.

       

      Leo - Strength

      I’m feeling the light of the Sun and the healing power of light.  Surrendering to the healing current is coming through strongly here.  I’m deviating from the traditional meaning as the feeling of warmth is a strong directive along with the expansiveness of healing energy.  If you practice a healing modality, this solar cycle is an opportunity to be your client.  Direct and infuse your mind, body, and soul with care.  Reiki is a universal life force energy that is available to us all.  You can sit in meditation and direct your hands to welcome it in to revitalize, restore, and bring peace.

       

      Virgo - 9 of Wands

      Resilience is a super power.  Life continually tests us with its trials and tribulations, some much grander than others.  The ability to get up against all odds and fight is your magic wand!  That fight that exists in you is a potent force.  That passion is LIFE. And the good news is we don’t have to stand alone.  Loved ones are available for comfort, solace, and inspiration, however, we must put down our need to go at it alone.

       

      Libra - King of Wands • Reversed

      In what way are you hiding your greatness?  The pursuit of excellence involves a growth mindset, consistent effort, and a refusal to settle for mediocrity. Improvement measured against one’s previous self rather than comparison to others.

       

      “Excellence is an art won by training and habituation. We do not act rightly because we have virtue or excellence, but we rather have those because we have acted rightly. We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act but a habit.”

      Will Durant

       

      Scorpio - 4 of Pentacles • Reversed & Wheel of Fortune

                  Prudence is often referred to as the Charioteer of all Virtues.  It guides other virtues by setting rule and measure.  This profoundly grounding merit creates the architecture for us to build, grow, and maintain our resources. Financial freedom starts to take root the moment we start to enact THE PLAN.

      Take inventory and get crystal clear on where your resources are flowing.  Time to take a scroll down the credit card and inspect it with your magnifying glass.  For instance, a daily $7 coffee over the course of a year is just under $3k.  The compound expenditures of these small ticket items begin to erode our finances over time.  This practice is about being mindful and making deliberate choices to hold and generate wealth.

       

      Sagittarius - 4 of Wands

      The spirit of Rose is coming through here.  This cardiovascular tonic works on the heart organ and helps us emotionally soften.  Harmony in our relationships flourishes with this added level of receptivity and capacity for intimacy.  What a wonderful way to celebrate and be present to life! 

       

      Capricorn - 7 of Swords

      The swords speak to the mind and its many edges.  From the brilliance of a strategy into the shadow of deception.  The psyches range is vast and wide.

      “Man is not what he thinks he is, he is what he hides.”

      André Malraux

       

      Aquarius - Knight of Wands • Reversed

      "The most powerful weapon on earth is the human soul on fire." - Ferdinand Foch

       

      Pisces - 8 of Wands

      Movement, momentum, and life force are surging in here.  This can manifest in several ways.  Perhaps a new work out route is wanting to be born.  Something that really builds serious heat!  Alternatively, maybe your equestrian spirit would love to sprawl the great outdoors in toe with a wild Stallion.  Either way, take it up a notch and get moving!

       

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